We really bought a fixer upper. We really did. A few years ago Jordan and I played a little April Fools joke here on the blog and said we had bought a fixer upper. That wasn’t true, but this time it is. Jordan isn’t involved in this one, though. Mr. Right and I bought it but not for us. It’s to help out a refugee friend of ours. It’s kind of a long story, so I will show you the before photos of the exterior and give you the back story at the same time. I am going to call our friend Bobo because it just doesn’t seem right to use his real name. Next week I will be back with the inside. It is in horrible condition, but Bobo thinks it looks like a palace already.
The Back Story
Our friend Bobo, his wife, and their six children were in a refugee camp in Burundi (it’s in Africa) for years. Then they were sponsored by a local church and were brought to Lexington to establish new lives here in our country. The church that sponsored them stopped offering support after just six months. That’s what they do with all of the refugee families they bring over. That makes me crazy because six months are not enough when you are in a new and very different country and can’t speak the language. That’s a whole other story, though. We met him when Mr. Right hired him to do some work for us at one of our commercial properties one weekend. My husband was so impressed with him and the other Burundi men who did part-time work for him. He continued (and continues) to hire them. They love and respect Mr. Right, and whenever they have a problem or a question about something, they come to Mr. Right, and he helps them work through it and solve the issue.
Bobo’s children are well-behaved and do well in school. Three have graduated and they are in college on scholarships. There are three still living at home and going to elementary and high school. After a few years of hard work, Bobo and his wife qualified for a Habitat for Humanity house. But sadly, after moving in, they divorced. We worked with them and counseled them to try to help them through their issues, but they still split. The ex-wife got the house, and Bobo lived (lives) in apartments that were really too small for his children to all be there comfortably at one time. Since he already had qualified for one Habitat House, he couldn’t apply for ownership of a second one. He desperately wanted to own his own home so his children could have a stable, permanent place to come to.
The House Hunt
Mr. Right and Bobo have been looking for homes that he could afford for over a year. Finally, they found one close enough that his children can walk to stay with him, and it’s in their school district. It’s in a neighborhood that is in transition which is good because it will increase in value. The down side is that it is in need of a major overhaul from the top to the bottom. I think Chip and Joanna Gaines might have walked away from this one, and they aren’t afraid of any challenge.
The way this is going to work is that Mr. Right and I now own the house, and we will pay for the improvements. Bobo and his friends will do as much as they are able to do, and we will hire professionals to do what they can’t. When it is completed, Bobo will buy it from us on a land contract for just what we have in it. We will not make a penny, and that was never our intention. We just want to help Bobo have a permanent home.
Plans for the Fixer Upper
The house needs a new roof, plumbing, wiring, some dry wall, kitchen, bath, along with a lot of other things. I get to make all of the design and decorating choices, but I have to keep the selections basic to hold down the costs for Bobo. I also have to consider that a single man and his children will be occupying the house which will have four bedrooms, one and a half baths, a kitchen/dining room combo and a living room when we are finished. One wall between the kitchen and dining room will hopefully come down if we can work around a brick fireplace. We will add a mudroom/laundry room/powder room area by the back door. It has a deck that will get replaced and a big yard where he plans to plants a vegetable garden. There’s also a front porch that needs help.
I hope to give you regular updates here on the blog. I know most of us love a good before and after even when it’s on a shoestring budget. Next week you will see the inside. Meanwhile,wish us luck.
Take care.
Mary Ann says
Looking forward to following along on your renovation. You and your husband continue to inspire me with your thoughtful ways of giving! Also looking forward to the first blog pics of your precious granddaughter
Janette says
Mary Ann, those photos will be tomorrow’s post.
kathy says
How kind and wonderful! I DO love a before and after!
Linda says
A really wonderful thing to do and can’t wait to see it all happen. Thank you Mr. & Mrs. Right and a good future to you, Mr. Bobo!
Janette says
Thank you, Linda!
Cindy says
What a wonderfully kind thing you are doing!
Janette says
Cindy, we do what we can do.
Janette says
Cindy, he is a dear man and deserves it.
Kathy says
Thank you so much! You are making America greater!! Bless you.
Janette says
Kathy, thank you.
Laurie says
What a wonderful thing you are doing! I wish I had the funds to do something like that.
Janette says
Laurie, perhaps you would like to do some volunteering through you local Habitat for Humnanity organization. They are such a good group.
Laurie says
I’ve actually donated to them before.
Donnamae says
You two never cease to impress me with all you do. I look forward to following along on this journey…it’s going to be fantastic!
Janette says
Donnamae, more photos next week – this time of the interior and its demolition.
Patricia says
It will be fascinating to watch your efforts come to fruition ! Can’t wait to see the amazing make over….God Bless you and Mr. Right for what you are doing…..And best of luck and good wishes to Mr. Bobo and his family.
Marian says
What a wonderful thing you are doing! Excited to see the progress.
Alicia@ Eco Natural Soap says
Wow what a wonderful blessing for him!
Shirley@Housepitality Designs says
You and Mr. Right are truly angels…I have always admired your contribution of helping those in need in the various countries that you have traveled to. I look forward to the progress of this house that will eventually become a home to Bobo. Bravo Janette!
Janette says
Thank you, Shirley!
Sandy says
You are saints to help this family, and now Bobo. They come here with nothing, often having fled from a dictator who cares nothing for his people. It’s heartwarming to hear about someone who sees their needs and helps them.
Janette says
Thank you, Sandy.