{"id":43033,"date":"2019-10-28T18:01:21","date_gmt":"2019-10-28T23:01:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/the2seasons.com\/?p=43033"},"modified":"2019-10-28T16:01:43","modified_gmt":"2019-10-28T21:01:43","slug":"adoption-update-google-5-months-home","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/the2seasons.com\/?p=43033","title":{"rendered":"Adoption Update – Google 5 Months Home"},"content":{"rendered":"

Well, it turns out that I missed the four-month home update, so I thought I needed to give you a five-month update.\u00a0 Five months….. I can’t believe it.\u00a0 At times if feels like yesterday when we were flying over to Thailand as a family of three and other times it feels like Google has been with us for much longer than five months.<\/p>\n

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(Atlanta aquarium)<\/em><\/p>\n

We wrapped up our second meeting with our social worker, and there’s only one more to go.\u00a0 Then we will wait for more paperwork from Thailand.\u00a0 We love our social worker.\u00a0 She has been with us since we moved to Charlotte and even before Little Miss came home.\u00a0 She has really seen our family and children grow.<\/p>\n

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(Google loves jumping in rain puddles.)<\/em><\/p>\n

Google is really starting to repeat more of what we say.\u00a0 For a long time he called Charles “Daddy Umm.” We realized Little Miss said “umm” every time she said “Daddy,” so Google thought his name was “Daddy Umm”.\u00a0 It is funny because we never realized Little Miss said that till he started saying it.\u00a0 He loves to say Little Miss’s name and will say it a lot.<\/p>\n

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(Fall train ride and looking out the window with Yaya.)<\/em><\/p>\n

The number one question we get from people is did we learn Thai.\u00a0 We learned a few keywords and phrases, but we went right into English, and he picked up understanding very fast.\u00a0 The other day he was in the car with me, and I was listening to NPR on the radio.\u00a0 They were talking about the Google website, and from the backseat, I kept hearing him say “Google” but not in the way we say it.\u00a0 He was saying it more in the way that the Thais said it when they called his name.\u00a0 It is so fun to hear him say it because for the longest time he was Google to us.\u00a0 Now we call him by the name we gave him.<\/p>\n

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(He loved this driving cart at the antique mall and was not happy to leave.)<\/em><\/p>\n

He also realizes that our Amazon Alexa plays music.\u00a0 We call ours Echo so we will hear him say, “Echo, stop” or “Echo, play.”\u00a0 A few times the Echo has responded to his command.<\/p>\n

Both of my children love being outside, and that makes me happy.\u00a0 Even when it is 100 degrees, they aren’t complaining.\u00a0 They are playing up a storm.\u00a0 I think it’s because they were in the high temperatures in Thailand during the first years of their lives.\u00a0 He has become a fan of his balance bike and is slowly figuring out his scooter.\u00a0 We have lots of young children in our neighborhood, and he is feeling more comfortable and enjoys playing with them……or at least running around when they are running around.<\/p>\n

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(Playing with some homemade sensory bins.)<\/em><\/p>\n

While a lot is going well, he still has a lot of grief and anger even at his young age that we need to help him work through.\u00a0 So, many people who do not have adopted children tell me he won’t remember, and it will be okay.\u00a0 That is not the case. Even though he was young, he experienced trauma, and that does something to the brain.\u00a0 Little Miss has remembered things from her Foster Mom that we didn’t know about or told her about, and she was even younger when she came home with us. We confirmed these things when we went back to visit her foster mother when we were in Thailand.\u00a0 It is tough as a mother to have a grieving or angry child who won’t let me comfort him.\u00a0 Our social worker reminds us it has only been five months and that he had the first two plus years of his life with another family.\u00a0 He has a right to be sad and angry.<\/p>\n

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(Looking for gems.)<\/em><\/p>\n

One thing we are taught in the adoption community is when your child comes home, there is real age and family age.\u00a0 Real age is the actual age of the child.\u00a0 Family age is the time the child has been with us.\u00a0 For example, Google is 2.5 years old in real age, but his family age is five months.\u00a0 So, at times you might think we are treating him like a baby, and that is right.\u00a0 We have to do so many things in terms of family age.\u00a0 He loves to be rocked and swaddled like a baby.\u00a0 He will bring me his blanket, and say “rock baby.”\u00a0 He uses his hands more than silverware for food as he is getting used to all the new sensations, textures and tastes just like a baby does.\u00a0 Of course, things progress faster than a typical baby, but this is an important step to do for a newly adopted child.<\/p>\n

Every day I say my blessings as I am so thankful for my family.\u00a0 I am thankful y’all have followed along for this wild ride of our adoption journey to complete our family.\u00a0 As always, I am here to answer any adoption-related questions if you ever have any.<\/p>\n

To read all about our adoption journey see below.<\/p>\n

Google two months home.<\/a><\/h3>\n

Google one month home.<\/a><\/h3>\n

Google adoption update.<\/a><\/h3>\n

Google adoption- it’s a boy!<\/a><\/h3>\n

Little Miss two years home.<\/a><\/h3>\n

Little Miss-meet Little Miss.<\/a><\/h3>\n

Little Miss one year home.<\/a><\/h3>\n

Eleven Months Home<\/a><\/h3>\n

Ten Months Home<\/a><\/h3>\n

Nine Months Home<\/a><\/h3>\n

Eight Months Home<\/a><\/h3>\n

Seven\u00a0Months Home<\/a><\/h3>\n

\u00a0\u00a0Six Months Home<\/a><\/h3>\n

Five Months Home<\/a><\/h3>\n

Four Months Home<\/a><\/h3>\n

Three Months Home<\/a><\/h3>\n

Two months home<\/a><\/h3>\n

One Month Home<\/a><\/h3>\n

Home from\u00a0Our Trip to Thailand<\/a><\/h3>\n

Update from Thailand<\/a><\/h3>\n

Waiting update #5<\/a><\/h3>\n

Waiting update #4<\/a><\/h3>\n

Waiting Update #3 We have a girl!<\/a><\/h3>\n

Waiting Update #2<\/a><\/h3>\n

Waiting Update #1<\/a><\/h3>\n

The life in lifestyle- adoption<\/a><\/h3>\n

We are adopting a baby!<\/a><\/h3>\n

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Cheers!<\/h3>\n

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